Don’t try and put in . . .
Don’t try and put in what God left out, try and draw out what God left in.
– Marcus Buckingham (The Future of Business by Gitman and McDaniel)
More often than not, we focus on others failings and not their positive attributes. We see what they need to do to improve and what they are “always” doing wrong. Whether it is our sister, brother, mother, father, friend, co-worker, we need to focus on their positive qualities and try to reinforce and strengthen those traits instead of bemoaning the fact that they never do things the way we want them to.